Abstract
The article deals with the idea of the Kazakh people about the upbringing of girls, as well as their upbringing in the family. Also, this study analyses the reasons for the appearance of various superstitions and beliefs associated with the birth of a girl, the attitude to the girl as a guest in the family, the importance of education received in the house from family and relatives before marriage, the behavior of the girl, what you need to know when entering into marriage and how to behave in the husband's house. Girls were not allowed to sit on the doorstep. In addition, if a young, unmarried girl came to visit someone, the owners of the house, welcoming her cordially, were seated in a place of honor. Distributing meat in trays, the girls were delivered a part of the animal in the coccyx area so that the girl's hair was long and strong, they were given the neck of the horse, where the mane grew. According to legends, if a girl came to the house and was seated in a place of honor, then happiness and prosperity come with her, but if she was seated at the doorstep, then all her misfortunes will remain in the house.Along with this, the article describes in detail the reasons why centuries-old national traditions are still preserved in rural areas, but are forgotten in cities.