Abstract
This unique comparative study examines mourning etiquette in Tennyson's "In Memoriam A.H.H." and Auezov's epic novel "Abai Zholy", providing unprecedented insight into how different cultures cope with loss and grief. The research derives particular value from its analysis of works created during pivotal moments for both cultures: the Victorian era in England and the period of transformation in traditional Kazakh society. The study reveals fundamental differences in approaches to mourning: individual philosophical contemplation in the English tradition versus collective ritual practices in Kazakh culture. Such comparison is especially relevant in today's globalised world, where understanding cultural differences in expressing grief has become crucial for intercultural communication. The practical significance of this work lies in its potential applications: developing guidelines for cross-cultural communication in situations of mourning, creating protocols for psychological support of those experiencing loss, and enriching educational programmes in intercultural communication. The identified linguistic and cultural patterns enhance our understanding of how different societies create support mechanisms for the bereaved, which is particularly important in the context of growing global interdependence and the need for cross-cultural understanding.